Focus on Becoming

In love and marriage, we all desire to be the perfect husband or wife, but always seem to fall short. One way we might grow and become better husbands and wife's, is by focusing on becoming. Neil A. Maxwell has said "What we insistently desire, over time, is what we will eventually become and what we will receive in eternity." In order to become better husbands and wives, we need to truly desire and work on that desire, to be better. As we allow that desire to work within us, overtime with much patience and love, we will grow into the husband or wife we desire to be.